Hello ladies, I’m new here. Asking total strangers this question might not be the best idea but I need help getting into the minds of women and any insights would be greatly appreciated.
I’m 31 and have been together with the most amazing woman for 5 months now. She’s 27. I’m an attorney and she’s a publicist who does some modeling on the side (WOO-HOO! I can say I’m dating a model!). Obviously, she’s gorgeous but she’s also sweet, smart, and funny and everything else I’ve ever wanted. Basically, I feel I’ve hit the jackpot. Everything is going great and I can imagine marrying her.
The thing is, I’ve only suddenly become attractive to women within the past few years. What I mean is, I was very unsuccessful with girls in HS and college and law school was three years of non-stop work. I’ve noticed that now that my group of friends is in their late 20’s early 30’s, I don’t even have to try with women anymore; they’re very forward with asking me out.
My SO is really the best of many amazing women that I’ve dated over the past few years. The attention hasn’t gone to my head because I keep thinking “If I went to HS or college with her, would she have given me the time of day?” “I’m I the safe guy that will pay for a house and kids?”
Don’t get me wrong, she treats me better than I’ve ever been treated. I think we’re both close to saying “ILY.” But I can’t shake the thought that she realizes she is getting older and needs a “nice” guy to settle down with. It’s not because of anything she’s said or done, but because of how my dating life has changed in the past few years.
Do women think like this? Do they settle for husbands who will provide a nice life? I’m I just over thinking things?
PS, I’ve lurked here for a while and just want to say that if I knew she would treat me like SimplyAmorous or I’mInLoveWithHubby, I’d marry her tomorrow.