Okay my husband and I have been together for 4 years now, married for 6 months. I have 3 boys from a previous relationship and we have a child together. Things were rocky before we got married and we broke up while I pregnant with our daughter. It really helped bring us back together and having her really helped us out. A year after she was born we got married. Part of me did it for our daughter, the other part did it cause I wanted to. Well now things have gone back to the way they were before we broke up the first time. Neither one of us have been unfaithful, no drug issues, no alcohol issues. He is a good dad, although he has a very short temper and tends to get irate about EVERYTHING. He is a good man over all. I love him, I really do, but there is no passion to it at all. We are not intimate at all and when we are it is really quick no foreplay, just to the point he finishes and its done. Nothing rreally in it for me. I am at the point that I can only handle him in small doses. Everything he does irritates me. I find myself complaining about everything he does. My boys have some emotional issues we have been going to counseling for and he has made 2 sessions in about 4 months and they go every week. I have made the decision for me and the kids to stay at my moms and he stays at the house.. I thought this might clue him in that something is up but it hasn't.. He come over here every day after work and stays till like 830-9. I think we need a full seperation, but not one that is the begining of a divorce, but one that takes us back to a clean slate, so we can become friends and start out slow and make sure this is really what we want.. He will say this is what I want and beg for me to not do this but I am not sure this is what i want.. I know I don't wanna jump to a divorce but he really doesn't know me as well as he thinks he does. I need to know if I am looking at this the right way and how to go about talking to him.. I want to do it sincerly and I dont' want to hurt him too bad. I know it will hurt but I want to save as much pain as possible.. HELP!!!!