When me and my wife first began dating it was a long distance relationship as I was in the military and over 8 hours away. We talked on the phone almost every night that we could. I got to see her when I came home but we spent much more time away than in person. We dated for two years until I was no longer serving and then we got married. I remember having quite a few conversations where she explained her fear of me being unfaithful. I simple reassured her that I loved her and would do nothing to hurt her. Now we have been married for little more than a year and almost from day one she has shown great jealousy and acted depressed. I feel like I am walking on eggshells around her. It has been a constant fight and now I am at the breaking point. I love her with all my heart and would do anything to prevent from separating. I have tried explaining to her that she has nothing to worry about but it just doesn't seem to work. When we run together if another woman passes us she accuses me of checking her out. I practically stare at the ground to try and prevent this but somehow she still accuses me. If I rent a movie and there would be a nude scene she accuses me of wanting to watch it, regardless of rather I have seen it before or not. I have never been unfaithful to her so i can not understand why should not trust me. While we were dating she discovered by going through my email that I was looking at porn.I first lied and simple told her it was spam cause I was embarrassed. I later confessed and explained to her that it was only because I was so far away and we was not married. I feel like I did nothing wrong and was not being unfaithful. Our relationship almost ended then except I promised never to look at it again and I have kept my word. This is one of her favorite things to bring up cause I first lied about it. I spend plenty of time with her as I am not very social with people. I do try to be friendly when I talk to someone and if that person happens to be a female then its her accusing me of flirting. She even does it when I am talking to her own family. I have asked others if it appears that I am flirting with anyone and no one else thinks so. Other than being extremely jealous she is often angry or depressed. I make jokes with her and just show how much I love her but somehow I say or do something wrong and then its an argument. I simple do not know what I am doing wrong. I have tried many times to talk to her and she blames me saying I flirt to much and don't know the right things to say to her. It is gotten to the point I don't want to get near her anymore which has only made things worse. When she does calm down then we are so happy together but those times are few and far between. Is this normal in a new marriage and if not how I can help her to relax, trust me and just be happy.