My husband and I have been together for 4 yrs. We recently got married and I have been really haveing a hard time w/my stepson. His father kind of lets him get away with alot of things that I dont think he should. It is really putting a strain on our relationship. I dont want the stepchild to get out of control and not be worth anything but trouble. But I am to the point of backing off and saying forget it. I just dont want to lose my husband. The hardest part is that my stepchild is 16 and I dont want my kids ages 13, 12 and 10 to take on his habbits and dissrespect. PLEASE HELP ME!