Hi, I am at a loss now and am wondering if I am overreacting, and that is why I am seeking your thoughts. I work in a senior management position in a government body. My husband is a former freelance journalist who fancies himself as a crusader against corruption and anti-government, etc. The reality is that he hasn't really worked properly as a journalist for quite a while. Therefore, he and his friend have set up a website where they post self-written articles blasting the work of the government agency where I work, amongst other articles. In particular, he writes very negatively against the Director of the agency who is my boss. These thoughts are simply his opinion and not fact. However, he signs his names to this articles and of course, it is obvious the writer is my husband. Mind you, my husband is not paid to do this work- it is all of his own initiative. When I ask him to stop it, as he is jeapordizing my work, he responds that he is a journalist and it is his right to write about whatever he wants. Help! I am the primary bread winner in our family and I can't afford to lose my job. At the same time, my husband and his friend continue to insist on their right to write whatever they want publicly about my job. By the way, my boss and my office are not corrupt, but they are high-profile. I can't imagine how to continue in this marriage as I can't seem to make my husband understand how much he is hurting me by his self-initiated website. There are many other issues in our marriage as well, such as the fact he doesn't seem to want to have sex except a few times a year, and despite my repeated requests, he still remains in contact with his former girlfriend. I am at a loss.....any help?