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So i have posted in the past like a year ago and at that point my relation ship with my wife of 8 years wAs rocky. Since them we have worked on things and both sex life and relationship have improved. But recently things have taken a dive... Here is the story...
In may i got into med school which has been my goal for many years! I started school in September and at the same time my wifes 18yr old sister came to live with us from her country for a year to study.
My wite quit her job 2 years ago almost to stay with kids. So we have been bickering over responsibilities alot and it has escalated. Med school provides amazing funding and with that I support our entire family (even her sister) but med school is a little more demanding then my previous 9-5 job, i actually stay late atleast 3 nights a week to study but have done so to have all weekends fully free for mybfamily.
basically she says i dont so enough around the house...i try to help but am mentally exhausted after school getting home at 9 pm 3 days a week And would prefer just to conversate. I do dished make breakfest before i leave and make sure all finances are always in order.
In the past 2.5 months we have not done anything as a couple!
And worse no plans for a getaway even though her sister could watch kids for a weekend....
Obviously no sex!
Im feeling depressed and not to mention i have made no real friends at school as i am older and have a family soncannot always hangout with them ...
I feel i do my share, it is uust different than her contribution but we both contribute
I actually dont know what to do... I plan to man up, make plans more often for the 2 of us but what else!
When i approach the topic, she says everything is fine or just states she expects more from me! What really i feel im doing alot, medschool, kids, doing as much as i can around the house providing for my family?
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So i have posted in the past like a year ago and at that point my relation ship with my wife of 8 years wAs rocky. Since them we have worked on things and both sex life and relationship have improved. But recently things have taken a dive... Here is the story...
In may i got into med school which has been my goal for many years! I started school in September and at the same time my wifes 18yr old sister came to live with us from her country for a year to study.
My wite quit her job 2 years ago almost to stay with kids. So we have been bickering over responsibilities alot and it has escalated. Med school provides amazing funding and with that I support our entire family (even her sister) but med school is a little more demanding then my previous 9-5 job, i actually stay late atleast 3 nights a week to study but have done so to have all weekends fully free for mybfamily.
basically she says i dont so enough around the house...i try to help but am mentally exhausted after school getting home at 9 pm 3 days a week And would prefer just to conversate. I do dished make breakfest before i leave and make sure all finances are always in order.
In the past 2.5 months we have not done anything as a couple!
And worse no plans for a getaway even though her sister could watch kids for a weekend....
Obviously no sex!
Im feeling depressed and not to mention i have made no real friends at school as i am older and have a family soncannot always hangout with them ...
I feel i do my share, it is uust different than her contribution but we both contribute
I actually dont know what to do... I plan to man up, make plans more often for the 2 of us but what else!
When i approach the topic, she says everything is fine or just states she expects more from me! What really i feel im doing alot, medschool, kids, doing as much as i can around the house providing for my family?
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