I am having issues with my husband. We have been married for 1 1/2 years. His birthday was a few weeks ago and we went out to dinner with some friends of his and my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. They started to talk about New Years Eve. Everyone assumed that I wanted to go to a bar to celebrate NYE because my husband did. I said I didn't know and wanted to think about it, but apparently no one listened to me. I thought about it and deceided that i didn't want to go because I didn't really want to celebrate with my in-laws because they drink to much and become VERY annoying and unbearable. He told his mom and sister that I didn't want to go so they didn't need to get us tickets. His sister proceeds to bombard him with texts and calls saying that he needs to get me to change my mind and that she is going to start calling me to change my mind. He gets mad at me because we didn't do anything for NYE, even though I told him that if it was that big of a deal to go out. So New Year's day I wanted to make breakfast and he ignores me when I ask him if he wanted some pancakes. After a few more attempts to get an answer I finally get one and say that he doesn't want any because he doesn't want to ruin his appatite. He then proceeds to tell me that his grandma was going to be having at dinner at her house, but he knew about the dinner for several days and he decided to tell me an hour before the dinner (which I found out after I flipped out). This just set me off. I know you probably are thinking why are you fighting over pancakes. Its not just the pancakes. He expects me to be a mindreader and know things that he forgets to tell me. He is a momma/grandmas's boy who really needs to cut the apron strings. He tells me that it is a never ending battle to please me and that I need to start pleasing him instead. I don't know what to do for him. I don't like half of his friends because they are drunks and I absolutely hate going to the bars that he likes to go to. I tried going all the time with him before we got married. I will admit to a certain point I am being childish, but if he knows anything about me he wouldn't force me to go to places and do things that I can not stand to be around. We haven't spoken since Tuesday and I'm just at a loss of what to do. I blame alot of what I'm feeling on the fact that I'm annoyed that his sister has been here since August and she expects everyone to drop everything and do whatever she wants since she doesn't live here even though my husband has his own life/family. I just need help on what to do to resolve our issues and get back to where we were. We were going to start trying to have a baby, but I don't think that is a good idea anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.