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I was searching for a place to get some advice from regular people because I know that I could learn alot from others. Also, I don't like talking to family or friends about relationship problems. I hope to learn alot, and possibly give out some wisdom of my own.
 

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this site is great my divorce has been hell on me and it is good to know i am not the only person who is going threw really hard and painfull times i think it is wonerful for people to reach out and give a helping hand to those who are just trying to find some answers to there confusing and painful situations thank you for creating this site God bless everyone
 

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I am posting this because there are people that need to know. My wife and i have been married for 19 years now. I have always known that I loved my wife. I used to travel for a living for many years, I never worried about my wife being unfaithful to me not once. Back in November of this year I noticed something was off in our relationship. There have been days that I just wondered about things I have never worried about before. I never questioned her because I was afraid of accusing her and then it becoming worse. I am a regular guy, I like to look at pretty women, I never try to do that where it will be offensive to my wife, but I can hang out with my buddies and say all kinds of things about women and what I would like to do and so on. i even said a time or 2 when a friend asked what if she was doing that I would say if she wants to go let her I dont care. Let me tell you how wrong i was. My wife had met someone on the net, she started having normal conversations with him and it became much more than that. Luckily they have never met, he lives out of state, and I caught on before it came to that. We are currently struggling with all of this, but I cant begin to tell you how I hurt so bad when I found all of this out. I know now just how much I love her and I want her here with me. I am willing to fix our problems and I will go to any distance to save our marriage. This is the problem, I was caught up in my own world working, and I neglected her, she found some comfort in a idiot on the net that was only wanting to hook up and he played her like a fool. Now none of that matters and i can only tell you that as mad as i became with her, I am willing to fight for her, and i will not ever take her for granite again. I just wanted to share this because if you love your spouse, then you should make it known every day. A good solid marriage isa hard to find, and you have no Idea how hard it is to deal with this kind of thing. i love my wife, and we are gonna make this work. the funny thing is neither of us wanted this to happen, we just looked the other way for a minute. if you love them you make damn sure they know it, Never let them be alone to feel unwanted!!!!
 

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So far, I love this site. I have read many threads of problems I have. It actually helps me to reply to a post and write something from my personal life. I hope this helps others, as I really think it is easy to not see solutions when you are deeply entrenched in your own situations.
 

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This is a unique forum whereby everybody is welcome to share his/her problem and give advice to each other.This type of open platform is very useful as you never know that when you can get solution to your problems as well while giving others advices.
 

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Good thought........
It is always good help others. Even i feel the same..
I do my best.. to help others,,,,
Even i got a suggestion from these threads which really helped me..thanks a lot....
Hope for the best!!!!!!!
 

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I appreciate the help I received when I posted about our marriage problem. I knew some of the answers but was not strong enough to stand up for myself. The way some of the answers were written, I was able to stand up for myself and admit my part in the problem and move forward. I credit this site for helping save our marriage.
Really!!
That sounds great! By seeing this post even i have decided to discuss my problem. Soon i will get back to you..
Thanks.
 

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Hi there. I stumbled upon this site and I am hoping to get and give some advices. Sometimes it takes just another perspective from someone who is not involved into the situation, to help a person see a resolution.
I am divorced with children and now I want to get involved in a relationship. But I seam to have develop a fear of intimacy. Whenever someone gets close, I put on heavy barriers around me. I want them to get through, but my fear and hesitation eventually burns them out. Should I go after him, explain my fears and ask him to keep trying? He was definitely interested, but now he hesitates. Does his hesitation mean that I should go after him or that he is done with trying to get close to me. Will my trying make me look desperate? Will I have internal peace if I just watch him lose interest? Any advice?
 

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Dawndee, post a thread in the going through divorce section, I'm sure you'll get some responses there. These threads don't get looked at as much.
 
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