Hello, I’ve had a bit of a problem arise between me and my wife. I work in a nightclub and my role is to look after people who are a bit worse for wear and a big part of that is speaking to lots of people. I speak to women and men and on the most part I get on quite well with everybody, some of the regulars I have on social media. One of the regulars, a woman, messaged me on Instagram telling me she was going there by herself and asked if I could sort of look after her, to which I agreed. Now, I will never say anything inappropriate to another woman, I will never do anything to jeopardise our relationship, I literally worship my wife. The problem is, I deleted the message panicking thinking my wife will think there was something going on between us, which there absolutely isn’t. She has never given me any reason to panic like that but I did because I worried it’d plant the seed in her head. She found out this girl had messaged me and I kept it from her and deleted it and now the very thing I was worried about I have created by being stupid. She thinks I panicked because I said something I shouldn’t have. I’d never do anything to hurt my wife because I love her more than anything and now I feel like I’m pushing her away because of a stupid mistake. I’ve told her the truth but I still feel she doesn’t believe me.