So me and my now fiancé have been together for three years. He really is the love of my life, my soul mate...everything. There is, however one problem...the sex. There is an age difference, which honestly has never interfered with anything between us except sexually. I stay ready for sex nearly 24/7, but he has low testosterone levels, and an erectile dysfunction. He's not even middle aged yet but his ex-wife basically just used him to give herself one then stopped...so he can't always get it up...I have tried porn and masturbation which worked at first, but I am desperate for that hot, passionate sex that we never really had. He is my first and only. I was a virgin when we met. I've never had sex with any one else before but recently I have found myself sexting and I almost agreed to have sex with someone else. I am NOT a cheater, as it goes against everything I believe in. I just stay so hot for so long, then when we do have sex, sometimes it's so fast I don't even have one. I'm afraid I'm turning into a sexual pleasure addict...Any advice on what I could do to tone down my sexual desires and possibly boost his?