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My STBX has been struggling with his contracting business. Economy and real estate market have caused business to dry up. I have worked full time for 16 years however he turns every conversation around to money. He walks away from everything and everyone and leaves me with all the bills, mortgage, debt and child care, medical ins, dental, orthodontist, school fund raisers, uniforms, etc. Despite this - I am trying to get $650 a month support. Small cost for his freedom with his tramps. I cover over 4500 a month from my paycheck and expect him to cover $650. Of course I never get this and barely get money. Here is the texting that just occurred..... Need to know if you would interpret my first email as nasty, snotty or insulting.... I just need to know if it is me.. maybe I am not seeing it!!!
Me –Hi did you get any checks in?
Ex - You tell me
Me - None here not sure if you received any I’m not lookin for fight or snotty comments
Ex - Did you check the mail?
Me - yesterday but got nothing
Ex - Snotty comments? What did you just text me other than nasty snotty shiity comments? Hi did you get me any $$$???
Me - That is nasty??? A question... You tell me that was nasty.
Ex - It was nasty. Think about it.
Me - I asked if you got any checks in That was not nasty at all . you have an issue with me and hate spews out every time you communicate with me. I have $22.00 in my bank and am asking a question whether you received any checks so you can write me Oct. and Nov support check.
Ex – Well that’s a whole lot more than me
Me - All you needed to say was no... I am done!!!
Ex - I don't hide a thin f-cking dime from you quit being greedy
ME – Not saying you ever hid money - Insulting jerk.
Ex - So why the shltty greedy question? Think about it.
Me - I am asking a f-cking question if you happened to get any checks in. as usual, you turn this into another insulting name calling session. You are so nasty and cruel.
Ex - No. You did. "Hi did you get me any money". That's all you ever say to me. All you ever did say to me.
Me – Ok keep believing that.
Ex – Truth
Me - Ok believe what you want. I worked full time 16 years os this marriage. I made a home for you and your child and always gave from my heart 100% . I was a giver and you always took me for granted. You want to rewrite history by making me sound evil go ahead. We both know the truth.
Ex - Absloutely you did. Except when it came to $ you cut my balls right off.
Me – Sure ok
Ex – Just think about it. Other than that a fantastic month and wife no doubt.
Me- I guess that is why you had 2 affairs. Never once heard an apology from you for hurting me or DD. Gave you up for the life you craved. Grass always greenier till you get there. money and bills part of life. Thought we could get past the nasty comments but you still hate me and disrespect me with your insults.
Ex - Yes we can get past once you get over your obsession with $$$$$
Me - Ok rug sweep the affairs that severed all trust. you completly avoid the subject. You have been doing this for the last four years. No apology, no shame. But $ is my issue ok.. Believe what you want ENOUGH!
WTF??? Am i losing it or is he delusional. Thank god I get paid Wednesday.
Am I nuts???
Me –Hi did you get any checks in?
Ex - You tell me
Me - None here not sure if you received any I’m not lookin for fight or snotty comments
Ex - Did you check the mail?
Me - yesterday but got nothing
Ex - Snotty comments? What did you just text me other than nasty snotty shiity comments? Hi did you get me any $$$???
Me - That is nasty??? A question... You tell me that was nasty.
Ex - It was nasty. Think about it.
Me - I asked if you got any checks in That was not nasty at all . you have an issue with me and hate spews out every time you communicate with me. I have $22.00 in my bank and am asking a question whether you received any checks so you can write me Oct. and Nov support check.
Ex – Well that’s a whole lot more than me
Me - All you needed to say was no... I am done!!!
Ex - I don't hide a thin f-cking dime from you quit being greedy
ME – Not saying you ever hid money - Insulting jerk.
Ex - So why the shltty greedy question? Think about it.
Me - I am asking a f-cking question if you happened to get any checks in. as usual, you turn this into another insulting name calling session. You are so nasty and cruel.
Ex - No. You did. "Hi did you get me any money". That's all you ever say to me. All you ever did say to me.
Me – Ok keep believing that.
Ex – Truth
Me - Ok believe what you want. I worked full time 16 years os this marriage. I made a home for you and your child and always gave from my heart 100% . I was a giver and you always took me for granted. You want to rewrite history by making me sound evil go ahead. We both know the truth.
Ex - Absloutely you did. Except when it came to $ you cut my balls right off.
Me – Sure ok
Ex – Just think about it. Other than that a fantastic month and wife no doubt.
Me- I guess that is why you had 2 affairs. Never once heard an apology from you for hurting me or DD. Gave you up for the life you craved. Grass always greenier till you get there. money and bills part of life. Thought we could get past the nasty comments but you still hate me and disrespect me with your insults.
Ex - Yes we can get past once you get over your obsession with $$$$$
Me - Ok rug sweep the affairs that severed all trust. you completly avoid the subject. You have been doing this for the last four years. No apology, no shame. But $ is my issue ok.. Believe what you want ENOUGH!
WTF??? Am i losing it or is he delusional. Thank god I get paid Wednesday.
Am I nuts???