Although her being called a “c*m dumpster” casts her in a poor light, you focusing on this and other such side facts is being used by you to derail your own thread, so that you do not have to acknowledge if your wife actually cheated with those other men the other night.she admitted, quite out of the blue, that there was a guy that used to call her a "c*m dumpster"
Again, she lied to you about who she was with. She lied to you about how she got home. She ghosted you for hours so that she could stay out very late with 2 Other Men that you never met. Studies show only 3 percent of cheated spouses actually catch the cheater in the act of actually having sex. Most people confirm cheating by catching them in the act of lying about being with members of the opposition sex in situations where the cheater feels the need to lie. Unfortunately, what you caught her doing is as much as you are going get on her if she is cheating.