For any of you that can relate, my wife asked me to join her for a discussion and in doing so I was told she was moving out into a small guest house of a friends and was going to take my girls. Now, are troubles are not new, she has had a tremendous amount of animosity for well over 8-1o years but for sure they were not all bad years. Bottom line; It has been a super tough 3 years with a down real estate market and losing millions. Lawsuits from investors who lost money, financial difficulties etc have been part of life and nothing could be done to avoid them. Her is the incredible thing.She has been so unloving, abusive, non construction, has not offered one bit of emotional support, told me she loves me for so long I cannot remember when she did. Not that she does not, not that she does not care, she just has emotionally shut down long ago. There is no question we will divorce but even with the nightmare emotional abandonment I still love her like nothing on earth. I do not understand why I feel this way about her and I don't know how to stop loving her so the pain will die off and I can renew myself by starting over an so much of my life. Any good advice?