Just the other day me and my wife had a fight or more or less she was yelling at me for buying a tool chest for 300. Now I know that seems a little extreme for a fight. I did have a spending problem months ago to cope with some other things going on in my life. It did affect our marriage and it was my fault and sought therapy ever since and have been good ever since for months now. Now to get back to it my wife was mortified that I bought this tool chest, we had the money, it wasn’t going to put any strain on finances in any way, used cash no credit. Now in hindsight I didn’t talk to her about it before buying which is my fault and said that during the fight. However she threatened me with saying “I’ll kick you out”, “If you buy one more tool I will divorce you”. I guess you get the point. I remained very calm because during her screaming match I was holding our 9 month old daughter. If you are angry at me fine if you yell at me fine but don’t do that in front of kids and don’t threaten to divorce and say it and not expect anything from it. I have mixed emotions now when it comes to my wife now. I already got the cold shoulder from my parents so they’re no longer in the picture. Now my wife threatens me to turn my world further upside down. What am I supposed to think?