My wife gets really emotional and says the most horrible things to me about the most fundamental things that make me me, she attacks my core. And I admit I am at fault some times. But she puts me down and this is the lowest I’ve ever felt. Thought I could pull myself back up alone but I’m not sure this time. She clearly says she has lost all respect for me, not attracted ashamed of me and don’t see me as a man. Don’t mean to play victim but I’m lost at this point.