marko polo· Registered
Her motivation for calling you is irrelevant. She is the only one that benefits.Update: She called me out of the blue while I’m at work, around 7:30. This is odd considering she really hasn't called or texted me since this started unless the topic(s) revolve around the kids and/or money. We end up being on the phone for an hour. A lot of awkward silence, being moody on her part mixed in with an occasional odd joke, etc. At one point she tells me, “I’m just going to be completely honest with you.” I expect to hear the worst, but she goes on to claim she’s been “very depressed”.
You expected to hear the worst. You will never get the truth from a person like your wife directly.
When she needs comfort she will seek you out. When she needs excitement she will seek out another man and treat you like garbage. She will continue to use you and abuse you for as long as you allow it.