This has been a long time issue with my wife, her texting started out in the thousands and is now in the ten thousands. Our last bill showed she had over 15,000 texts. We are 15 days into the next billing cycle and she is already at 5,200 texts total. Keep in mind this does not include the Yahoo IMing she does from her phone, nor her Facebook,…I told her she has a problem and she says she doesn’t. She says woman talk more than men do and she needs the outlet since she can’t talk on the phone because our 2 small children don’t allow her too without interupting. This is upsetting me to no end to say the least. I checked our phone bill online and minute to minute there was a text, from the time she's up (around 8:00) til bed (around 11:00 or 12:00) with only small pauses here and there. I told her it’s ruining our marriage but she does not seem to care, she is still doing it. Her behavior is almost that of an alcoholic who doesn’t think they have a problem nor is it affecting the family. Even on our anniversary she said she would turn her phone off, eventually it got turned on and stayed on, I knew she couldn’t resist. My fault is that I enable her cause I am too passive-aggressive. I am either cool or I am hot, and I don’t like getting to my hot point so I allow it to continue. Divorce has already come up numerous times and was almost executed. What can I do to save our family? I know this is not a cheating issue, just an addiction issue.