Hi. Thank you in advance for you advice. Our marriage is getting very ugly due to this problem, possible separation/divorce. After we had our child almost 5 yrs ago. I kept pushing for sex and she has been pulling away. We have had this discussion several times and we try to work at it, no changes, i keep messing up, bugging for sex. But she has confronted me and told me she is tired and exhausted already, doesnt like to make love/sex any more and doesnt want to hurt me any more. Since i want sex so much and she doesnt. We are going to do a retroville soon, i hope this helps. I am trying my best not to get my sexual urges and ask her for sex, give her space. Please any advice? Will she ever want to make love/sex to me again? How long can that take?