You do realize that your wife cheated on you during the honeymoon phase of your relationship. That period of time was supposed to be the happiest and most loving of your relationship. It was during the honeymoon phase, when the two of you reached a mile stone of moving in together, that she started ****ing her ex boyfriend with the big D.My last response until the weekend at least.
Of course my wife and I have talked about it, and she insists I have nothing to worry about. We agreed to talk at midnight both nights she is gone. It is what might happen before and after midnight that will be on my mind too much.
And honestly, it's probably worrying me SO much more than it should be. But I think its interesting that just about everyone here thinks without a doubt that she WILL have sex with Paul. Like our home, family, and marriage does not even enter into the equation. Yes, it happened when we were engaged, but I would hope the last 10 years will count for something.
I do wish we never "roleplayed" about him and started those emails. They were just something fun my wife and I were doing, but Paul may have seen it differently.
My wife already knows we are having sex just before she leaves and as soon as she comes home...lol. I will be busy with work and the the kids during the days which will make time more along a little quicker. But after they are in bed Friday and Saturday night will be the toughest. Thank god for ESPN and college football.
This period of time is when things get a little boring in a marriage and some might stray. Your wife has already proven she will cheat if given the opportunity. Her ex is going to do his best to give her the best nights of her life. To top it of, there isn’t a damn thing you can do to stop it. All you have done is say please don’t but if you do, we will work through it.
During her confession years ago, did she tell you about how the two of them made fun about how much smaller you were? About how she might never get a chance to experience the joy of being with him. Well, she has her chance now starting this weekend end.
I am waiting for the excuses of why the midnight calls don’t happen.
My phone was dead and my charger was at the hotel room.
I lost tract of time and didn’t want to wake you up.
I was to drunk and past out. Slept right through you trying to call.
Phone call at midnight to 0030. Riding Mr Happy from 0031 to 0600.
Start foreplay from 2200-2355. Calm down some to take phone call at midnight. Get off phone as soon as possible. Get back to it.
Hopism is strong in you. Defeatism is also, you already will forgive her and pick up the pieces if she cheats.
What a mess up marriage you have.