So I come to this site as a married woman considering seperation/divorce vs. continuing in my marriage. If I stay in this marriage, it is basically a marriage on paper only it seems. We have been limping along for the last 5-6 years of our 15 year marriage (as of midnight tonight, our anniversary). We have 2 young children who will be effected by either decision I/we make. I hope with advice I get here and IRL I can come to the right decision for my family...