Thank you! i do trust my husband though and i know he would never cheat on me. Esp all i put him through and he still tells me he loves me everyday. If he wanted to leave and be with someone else i know he would have done it a while ago but he sticks by me and fights for our marriage.Just the fact you take self-responsibility makes me think you will work it out. Wonderful to see so many women on here bucking up and looking themselves square in the face.
If I were a woman, I too would be insecure, about the 20yo thing. Just let it go. Maybe bring some humor into it. I think a lot of men buckle when a woman just sees all the BS in everything.