Your marriage isn't gone honey, but it IS hanging by a thread. I am honestly struggling to understand what motivated your husband to do this, given both how inappropriate it is and how fragile your marriage is right now.I’m not ok. My marriage and life are gone a
Nd I’m not sure what to do
Is he home yet? How are things now?
You NEED to get a handle on this, and make an appointment with your doctor asap to get some short acting anti anxiety meds to help you keep your thoughts under control. This is a must.
And for what it's worth, hubby needs a slap upside the head for being so damn dumb.