Hi I'm a new to the forum and I'm so discussed that my husband's ex-girlfriend attends his church and he wants me to attend his church as well. Not only does his ex-girlfriend attend but she talks to his mother and sister while I am there. I feel like this is total disrespect and my husband feels that I should just ignore it and come for him. I've told him that I don't feel comfortable at this church and he has just brushed it off saying that he is not leaving this church and that this is his ministry. It's causing problems in our marriage because he now does things within the church and not tell me. Example: He got baptised yesterday and I thought this is a very important part of his life. I didn't know about it until it was already done. Oh, by the way he is a minister. We have only been married for a month and I feel like I have just stepped into the wrong marriage. I know that you are suppose to follow your husband, but when is it time to say that's going to far. I'm open to any comments.