I stumbled upon it on accident. Going to the history, using his computer trying to get recover my webpage. I found an email address I did not recognize, called him and confronted him. He told me It was just stuff and he swore he didn't do anything. Then he deleted his account before I could go through it. I made him recover it. And when I recovered it I asked him again if he did anything because I was going to read every email and even found out how to read past chats and find all of the "Dating" web sites that he was meeting one time partners on. He confessed to having a sexual act with another man and that it only happened once, and that he didn't enjoy it even thought that was the only email with a reply of "that was great, can we do that again soon". And that all of the emails that had meet up dates and times did not happen because he chickened out. He lies to me about every little detail. And he created it two months after we met and had it active the entire time we were together. Met up with the man 11 days from my birthday. He Also had many emails that said dont text me or call this time because my Woman is going to be home. He swears its all going to change. But from the get go I said tell me if you want to see other people! We will take a break or have some fun together. Now its a different story. Now he doesn't want to share me with anyone else but still explore our fantasies together. I'm so torn between his infidelity and my love for him. I need advice. I honestly didn't even know he was bi.