Im really struggling with my emotions and just life in general. My husband and i have been married for almost 4 yrs and we have a beautiful daughter and one on the way and he has told me that he is no longer in love with me and that he has soo much animosity towards me and he definitely wants to move out because he cant stand living with me. I am to blame for most of the problems in our relationship, when we got married i was 21 and he was 29 so i was def. on the young side. I was very immature when it came to our relationship and marriage in general, he loved me unconditionally and i took him for granted quite a bit and was always trying to see how far i could push him bc i thought he would never leave me..like i said i was very naive and immature. As time went on he started telling me what i was doing and how i had been treating him was wrong and he shouldnt be treated that way, and again i didnt listen. He began to pull away from me physically and emotionally, we lived like this for yrs we had very good moments together but some really terrible times also. Recently I thought that mb we should separate, mb thats why i was soo unhappy. I went out on one mediocre date where all i talked about was my husband and my daughter which made me realize that all i have ever was going to want for the rest of my life was my husband that i already had, that he was the man that i absolutely positively love and adore and that im soo crazy attracted to. I also realized that what i had done in the past was the worst thing someone could ever do to their spouse, and i was ready to give my self to him 110%, so i went to him and told him that i really want to work it out, but he then told me that it was too late and that he didnt love me anymore, I then found out i was pregnant. He thinks that i only want to be with him bc of the baby which is not true, i really truely want to love him and raise our family together. I really dont want him to leave and have asked him to go to counseling with me but he refuses saying that counseling is for people who want to work at their relationship and he is past that. I dont know what to do I really dont want my husband to leave, i love him soo much and ive told him how sorry i was for everything that i have put him through and i just want a chance to show him that. Do I just let him go, or should i keep fighting??