hello, this is my first post, and I would really appreciate your inputs. I have been married to my husband for over 7 years and been together for 10 years, I am 31 years old and he is 33 and he's a very good looking man, we have 2 beautiful sons. however, we have been going through a rough time in our marriage, a lot of arguments, no sex ( maybe 2 times a month if I am lucky even I beg him to have sex with me), and this morning he told me that he believes he is Bi-curious at least, and he thinks of other men when he masturbates ( he said that he hates masturbating because he cannot help but thinking of other women and men). part of me is sad that it took him over 33 years to come out with his sexuality, and the other part of me feels cheated of all those years. he asked me to go to a gay bar with him, because he needs my moral support, he said that he doesn't want the leave the bar with another guy but just wants to explore and mingle,I think I want to go there to help him with his sexuality but at the same time I don't know what to do!!! I am very sexually open minded, but I also feel lost. any ideas?