so my husband and i have been separated for a couple of months and the reason why is because one day he told me he wanted a divorce. because he wasn't in love with me or find me attractive in any way. we've been together 2 yrs and married for 1. im a big girl and always have been. but he says since he met me after i had my first son that he thought it was all just baby weight. well not my weight is a huge issue. but i havent gained i've stayed right around the same weight the whole time we've been together including when i was pregnant with our son. we have tons of other issues which we've been working on but i just cant get over the fact that we're trying to work things out but he's still unattracted to me and it affects us in A LOT of ways....what do i do?