So I thought things were going good in my marriage. I found out the other night my husband may be cheating on me....which is another post I made on this forum. Anyways, I am keeping low until I find out for sure...because I guess I haven't confirmed it other then word of mouth from my husbands best friends girl friend. So tonight I talked to him to tell him he is "innocent until proven guilty." Since I confronted him about this he has sworn up and down he is 100% faithful. Anyways after I told him that I was sorry and I wouldn't accuse him any longer he told me the less I have sex with him the more of a chance he will go a stray and pretty much cheat on me. I can say we probably have sex atleast 2x/a week. We work completely different schedules so I try to make the time even when I don't feel like it. There has been times, where we didn't have sex period because I hurt my back for instance and it was 2 weeks maybe less of no sex. He wanted it during that time I was injured and I said we could but we would have to do it in a position that was confortable for me with my pain and he would be the one doing the work unlike where I usually am on top. He refused and said he didnt want to do the work. Anyways, I try to please him but it seems like he wants it ALL THE TIME. Sometimes we may do it a couple days and he will want it again and I will instead give him a BJ or something, or we can do it more than a few times a week on rare occassion and he will say that I still don't give it to him enough. Anyways, back to our convo. I asked if what he told me was a threat and he said I dunno maybe. I then asked what he thought was ideal as far as how many times per week. His answer was "we will see how it goes." And then proceeded to tell me this was a "for warning." The past few days, since this girl told me he has been cheating on me, I have not felt in the mood. Quite honestly if the stuff she was saying was true, it actually disgusts me thinking about making love to him if he has been having sex with this other girl. I want our marriage to work.....and I am extremely dedicated to it. Is there a way to get past the disgust of him having sex with me and possibly some other girl when all I have is what I was told to blame him on? And is 2x a week that bad? How do I get over this? He doesn't think it should affect anything. I almost feel in some ways because I am so insecure at the moment. This was in some ways admitting guilt. comments? Suggestions?