How do you come to this conclusion?
From her other post.
So like the title states , my husband and I have been married for 1.5 years and he is putting me thought it . He does rideshare for a living so he makes around 1000-1500 a week as a UBER driver . I work two jobs as a analyst and Help desk tech so I do make more money than him but I feel like I’m carrying on the financial burden of the marriage . I buy all the Groceries , toiletries , internet bill , cable bill , car note and insurance . At one point we were splitting the rent , however as of three months ago , he stopped paying his portion because he had some unexpected bills , which I honestly have no idea what those bills are So I’m litterally carrying the financial burden of the household with no help . And I’m frustrated .To add insult to injury , he is flirting with other women and exchanging numbers with his riders he picks up doing UBER I while driving my car .
I found texts with him , sending cash app to different women , meeting up with different women at restaurants to “discuss business “ .I even caught him purchasing Victoria secret lingerie for a woman he met while driving for UBER. He tells me bought it for her to help her with her performing outfit for a concert performance .He’s telling different women he wants to go on vacations , pay their bills , take them out to have fun and pay them as well to join his non profit to help the homeless when he doesn’t have an actual non profit lol . I also found texts with him sending some woman he met money in exchange for a video of her masterbating . He was banned from UBER yesterday due to unprofessional behavior due to several reports against him . So now he’s lost that source of income . I have suggested jobs he can get , his response is “ I don’t like people and I want to be able to network while I work and work a flexible work schduele “ so he’s basically telling me he will not work a regular job .
To add , I also have never met any of his family . He has three children and an ex wife who lives in California . He refuses to tell me there names , show me pictures of them or any type of personal information about them . Also same with his parents , refuses to tell
Me anything about them .I have yet to meet them at all nor his sister or any other family member . When I ask him about it , he just keeps telling me he hates his patents and doesn’t want talk to them . Especially his mother , he hates his mother with a passion .
In addition we are having intimacy issues . We no longer French kiss , no foreplay , no sex in over three months . Actually I can count on one hand how many times we have had actual sex this year .
I also notice when I try to get him to do things I enjoy like concerts , just anything I personally enjoy he gets upset . The other day I asked him to come with me to get a Christmas tree , and he was mad and angry the entire drive to pick up the tree and actually yelled at me in front of the store clerk . He also didn’t but me anything for Christmas . I went and bought him over 1,000 dollars of clothes and this dude didn’t even buy my a nice bottles of perfume or anything . When I ask him why didn’t he get me anything for Christmas , his response is “he doesn’t celebrate Christmas “ . He doesn’t even buy his children anything for Christmas .they are 19,16 , and 15 years old and live in a different state but he acts like he doesn’t care about his own children .
Im at my wits end . Should we try counseling to Try to save the marriage or should I just walk away ?
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