hi there, so sorry you are here, but it's a great place to put a marriage back together.....
first of all like the others have said, tell the other husband and work together to stop the contact. Affairs only survive if everyone keeps their secrets......it doesn't work when it's a lot more work to pull it off, or other people know......of course he is embarrassed and he should, I would expose his affair to everyone he knows, let them put pressure on him to stop the affair. Your marriage can survive him being mad at you for exposing, it can't survive the affair continuing.......
Tell him you are fighting to save your marriage and you can't have a third person in it....your husband is deep in affair babble as we call it here......until there is no contact between them he won't commit back to the marriage......
Stay calm and read and learn all you can here about the steps to save a marriage, end an affair and how to go about the steps to make these things happen......Be smart and be patient and don't expect anything out of him for a while, until the affair fog lifts........
good luck and come here for support
first of all like the others have said, tell the other husband and work together to stop the contact. Affairs only survive if everyone keeps their secrets......it doesn't work when it's a lot more work to pull it off, or other people know......of course he is embarrassed and he should, I would expose his affair to everyone he knows, let them put pressure on him to stop the affair. Your marriage can survive him being mad at you for exposing, it can't survive the affair continuing.......
Tell him you are fighting to save your marriage and you can't have a third person in it....your husband is deep in affair babble as we call it here......until there is no contact between them he won't commit back to the marriage......
Stay calm and read and learn all you can here about the steps to save a marriage, end an affair and how to go about the steps to make these things happen......Be smart and be patient and don't expect anything out of him for a while, until the affair fog lifts........
good luck and come here for support
