When we got married a few years ago, he wasn't this much of a slob...now, it is crazy...I know part of it is because his job...He's had it for a year and the hours are very long so he gets home he throws everything everywhere...leaves food out...leaves food everywhere (say juice in the bathroom the other day)...we have two babies so I am busy enough. I will go back to work soon and I don't know how to get him to just not throw everything everywhere... I don't need him to fold everything and clean the dishes, just don't leave eggs out for hours, and put clothes beside the front door...when I say anything, he says that I keep complaining everyday...the thing is, I am just repeating it everyday because I am going crazy. It's like he doesn't respect the house or me because he hasn't changed anything... What should I do? Every time we talk about it, he gets upset and stops talking...