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My husband doesn't want sex (Help!)

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Guys i have somewhat similar problem please HELP!!!!
Hi, i am married to this man whom i love and he loves me too since just 9months.
He havent changed in anything but sex. For first 2 months it was regular. Then he started saying that we shouldn't do it so often otherwise we will get bored early in longtime. So we started doing once in 3 days that mean 2 times a week. This thing continued for rest of the month. But now since a month or 2 he is not much in to sex. I have to keep saying him indirectly that u don't do anything. I even talked to him directly very politely and lovingly that y r u behaving like this. Is there any problem with me or u expect something or there's something else?? "He always say there is nothing darling its just the schedule". But we do get a lot of time together plus its been the same routine since we are married. And one more thing, whenever he wants i never say no. But everytime whenever i initiate, he ll do it only when he wants to otherwise he ll just say "right now i dont have mood for this baby" we ll do it tomorrow or say later. Its been the same since the marriage. I am totally depressed right now. Its not that i can't live without sex or anything.The main thing is why has he changed.And why is he behaving this way for sex. Its totally opposite to what i have heard about others.
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Hi JennyJenny
Welcome to the forum. I strongly recommend you start your own thread (copy and paste your post) or you will find others might answer the original post and miss your sincere request for advice :)

Have you both sat down and talked about it, about sex and how each of you understand the other?
Hi JennyJenny
Welcome to the forum. I strongly recommend you start your own thread (copy and paste your post) or you will find others might answer the original post and miss your sincere request for advice :)

Have you both sat down and talked about it, about sex and how each of you understand the other?
It's done--JennyJenny now has her own thread.
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