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My cheating wife can't understand why our daughter doesn't want to spend time with he

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maincourse99
It amazes me, stbxw cheats, leaves home and moves in with OM and then can't fathom why her 11 year old daughter might not want to be hanging out with her over there and doing sleepovers (OM isn't there at night).

I guess it goes along with the selfishness. She wants it all to work out for her just the way she wants, and she gets very frustrated when it doesn't.

I told her it might not be a great idea to force the issue, she isn't 4 and she understands what's happened here.

Anyone else dealing with the same problem?
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Mine are older, 15 and 12. They know what STBXH has been up to. The younger one treats him fine on the rare occasion when he comes for visitation (he's out of state). The older one will have nothing to do with it. He doen't get it and is sure I've turned them against him. Actually I try to encourage them to maintain contact, but they are not that keen to share things with him. He's paranoid and refuses to take any responsibiity for his behavior, so blaming me is easier than blaming himself, or making a real effort with his kids.
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