My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. Everything was great in the beginning; intimacy and physical affection every day or at least every week. Lately, he does not want sex or any physical attention, he also does not want to give it either. He's actually a little pushed off at the thought of it sometimes. We will go a month without having sex, though we find each other physically attractive. We are still perfect on an emotional level, never fight or have trouble talking about our problems. We are trying to seek help wherever we can find it before we go to a counselor because money is kind of an issue. We've looked into apathy and it sounds kind of like our situation, but we don't know how to fix things. We don't know what caused him to feel this way and don't know where to go now. If anyone could give me some insight we'd greatly appreciate it.