Thank you sharing that good man.
MSPY help
i have installed MSPY on my wifes phone with her knowledge. Most of the features work except the social media apps such as facebook messanger, instagram, snap, whatsap etc. i can see the activity in the keylogger, her texts, emails, apps, clock and alarms, calls etc but my expectation was i would see the actual messages in the various social media folders such as messanger. any help with this would be appreciated.
both android phones.
both android phones.
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Fair enough. Just remember that in the long run, your personal integrity, dignity and self-respect matter far more than your (compromised) marriage.its a combination of both. i need to info grab, it's what i do. i've been reading this forum since 9/25/21 so yeah, i have a pretty good idea of what i'll be told.
Make sure you don’t sacrifice the former to try to fearfully and desperately hold onto the later.
thanks manThank you sharing that good man.
i appreciate this. thank youFair enough. Just remember that in the long run, your personal integrity, dignity and self-respect matter far more than your (compromised) marriage.
Make sure you don’t sacrifice the former to try to fearfully and desperately hold onto the later.
You have as much time as you need. Dont feel pressured or obligated to explain yourself. Its your life. Sorry I can't help with the key logger stuff. Suggest looking up another and then check the consumer rating to see what is best. Could just be simpler. Some can be downloaded covertly through a text or email. Also will give to real time show of who she's calling, or texting with you observing all she's writing and receiving live. Immediate knowledge. Also with email and computers as well.thanks man
I'm still lost.
In 2021 you found out about an EA. Your wife then changed & worked on the marriage.
Now you you are saying that you now know that in addition to the EA she had a PA with a 2nd / different guy. Are you saying that PA happened in 2019?
If since 2021 she has been working on the marriage even though you now have more trickle truth, her changes since 2021 are some reason to continue trying to fix things. But as I said, if you recently discovered that she has recently been unfaithful again, being done is probably the answer.
I just hate to see somebody waste money on things like spywear & a costly polygraph when those expensive "gadgets" won't guarantee trust is restored. If she fails the polygraph or it's equivocal which could happen if she's emotional then what?
In 2021 you found out about an EA. Your wife then changed & worked on the marriage.
Now you you are saying that you now know that in addition to the EA she had a PA with a 2nd / different guy. Are you saying that PA happened in 2019?
If since 2021 she has been working on the marriage even though you now have more trickle truth, her changes since 2021 are some reason to continue trying to fix things. But as I said, if you recently discovered that she has recently been unfaithful again, being done is probably the answer.
I just hate to see somebody waste money on things like spywear & a costly polygraph when those expensive "gadgets" won't guarantee trust is restored. If she fails the polygraph or it's equivocal which could happen if she's emotional then what?
sorry, i'm on my phone and trying not to throw up.I'm still lost.
In 2021 you found out about an EA. Your wife then changed & worked on the marriage.
Now you you are saying that you now know that in addition to the EA she had a PA with a 2nd / different guy. Are you saying that PA happened in 2019?
If since 2021 she has been working on the marriage even though you now have more trickle truth, her changes since 2021 are some reason to continue trying to fix things. But as I said, if you recently discovered that she has recently been unfaithful again, being done is probably the answer.
I just hate to see somebody waste money on things like spywear & a costly polygraph when those expensive "gadgets" won't guarantee trust is restored. If she fails the polygraph or it's equivocal which could happen if she's emotional then what?
In 9/2021 you found out about an EA. Your wife then changed & worked on the marriage.
yes.
Now you you are saying that you now know that in addition to the EA she had a PA with a 2nd / different guy. Are you saying that PA happened in 2019?
yes and no. her last PA ended in 2019, she is willing to poly on it. i have seen nothing to indicate any affair since 9/21.
So you don't believe that that PA or the EA ended because you were getting trickle truth & just now found out about the long ago PA. Got it.
Still don't think gadgets will help but that's me.
Still don't think gadgets will help but that's me.
i'm not being clear.So you don't believe that that PA or the EA ended because you were getting trickle truth & just now found out about the long ago PA. Got it.
Still don't think gadgets will help but that's me.
9/25/91 was dday1. i busted her in a 3 month EA.
Mothers day 5/14/23 was dday2. i found about 2 PA's that ended in 2019.
i've seen nothing to indicate any affairs since 9/21.
Brother, you're being baited a bit here. Back off take care of the software stuff. When you really feel, as much as you can, ready to discuss, the forum will be here for you.
thanksBrother, you're being baited a bit here. Back off take care of the software stuff. When you really feel, as much as you can, ready to discuss, the forum will be here for you.
2 PAs? Oh good heavens. Plus trickle truth . . .
What are you holding on to? I might be able to get past one indiscretion (a single ONS) but all this? You are a better more forgiving person than me.
Still think you're wasting your time, money & emotional energy on spyware & a polygraph. Sorry that talking about this is making you want to throw up. I understand why & submit that sometimes vomit is the way to expel toxins from your body. Now, how to expel them from your life . . . ?
What are you holding on to? I might be able to get past one indiscretion (a single ONS) but all this? You are a better more forgiving person than me.
Still think you're wasting your time, money & emotional energy on spyware & a polygraph. Sorry that talking about this is making you want to throw up. I understand why & submit that sometimes vomit is the way to expel toxins from your body. Now, how to expel them from your life . . . ?
Why would you want to stay with someone who's had at least 3 affairs that you know of ? Mspy ? What's the point....You already know she's not a safe partner. Forget the EA of '91 , 2 PA's ?
Why are you still with this woman ?
Why are you still with this woman ?
hi Jimi007. i am curious if you have experience being the victim of infidelity from your partner? did it include children, 23 years of jt financial relationship etc? and finallly, if you made a decision 9 days out to completely blow up your life? thank youWhy would you want to stay with someone who's had at least 3 affairs that you know of ? Mspy ? What's the point....You already know she's not a safe partner. Forget the EA of '91 , 2 PA's ?
Why are you still with this woman ?
@Patrick1961
Nobody is suggesting you blow up your life on a whim. We all realize the rug just got pulled out from under you & you are casting about trying to make some sort of sense of your life.
My immediate concern in the moment is that you don't spend a ton of money on stuff that won't help. You will need that cash for lawyers & moving expenses. Sorry.
Nobody is suggesting you blow up your life on a whim. We all realize the rug just got pulled out from under you & you are casting about trying to make some sort of sense of your life.
My immediate concern in the moment is that you don't spend a ton of money on stuff that won't help. You will need that cash for lawyers & moving expenses. Sorry.
Hey Patrick,
If you’ve read this board, you will see two things:
I urge you to stop any kind of thinking that YOU might “blow up” your life. It’s already happened, and it’s 100% due to your wife’s evil choices.
So sorry your wife put you in this position. I know you’re hurting bad, and as a result it’s harder to see things clearly. Regarding your above comment, it was YOUR WIFE that ALREADY blew up your life, marriage, and family, with the multiple adulteries. You’ve only just discovered that your marriage was a farce, and that she ended it prior to 2019.if you made a decision 9 days out to completely blow up your life
If you’ve read this board, you will see two things:
- Successful R’s do happen, but….
- Successful R’s are about as rare as finding a perfectly new $100 bill under your windshield wiper
I urge you to stop any kind of thinking that YOU might “blow up” your life. It’s already happened, and it’s 100% due to your wife’s evil choices.
Everyone's experiences and tolerance for these kinds of things is different. The point being made is don't sacrifice yourself and live a life where you are miserable for the sake of "saving the marriage" or worse yet, fear of change.hi Jimi007. i am curious if you have experience being the victim of infidelity from your partner? did it include children, 23 years of jt financial relationship etc? and finallly, if you made a decision 9 days out to completely blow up your life? thank you
I've experienced a single instance of infidelity more than 35 years ago. At the time she wasn't my wife yet and we had barely started our relationship. Details are in one of the discussions I've created, if you care to read the story. My then GF and now wife did everything right to recover from that and I'm happy to say we are still living in an incredibly happy and successful marriage. Knowing what I know now I would have been a fool to walk away from her. In spite of that, hardly a day goes by that I don't think about her cheating. It doesn't gnaw at me or anything, but it is forever with you. If you stay with your wife you will need to get to a point where you don't need to be using spyware or whatever. If not you will drive yourself insane with anxiety and worry.
Sorry if my comment seemed insensitive.hi Jimi007. i am curious if you have experience being the victim of infidelity from your partner? did it include children, 23 years of jt financial relationship etc? and finallly, if you made a decision 9 days out to completely blow up your life? thank you
And yes , I have been the victim of infidelity. I walked away from my relationship when I found out. And yes , i blew it all up...All the Mspy in the world Won't fix your problem.
Sorry your here . Best of luck ,Jimi
thank you for your kind reply.Sorry if my comment seemed insensitive.
And yes , I have been the victim of infidelity. I walked away from my relationship when I found out. And yes , i blew it all up...All the Mspy in the world Won't fix your problem.
Sorry your here . Best of luck ,Jimi
That’s all just ******** excuses, based on fear, and you know it.hi Jimi007. i am curious if you have experience being the victim of infidelity from your partner? did it include children, 23 years of jt financial relationship etc? and finallly, if you made a decision 9 days out to completely blow up your life? thank you
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