I will repost what Bandit posted at the end of that other thread.
You shouldn't care ONE BIT what she is going through right now.
You shouldn't care ONE BIT what she is going through right now.Don't give her one red cent. Not a dime. Let her experience the full spectrum of the Great Circle of Dumbassedness...make dumbass choices and experience dumbass consequences.
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Yes there his. I just read on his other thread that their mother tried to commit suicide. She's obviously in pain.EleGirl was about to post something similar. There is just something so deeply scarring about kids losing their mother.
When my parents divorced at 7 I was used as a weapon against each other and when I was abandoned at 12, it only elevated the hate against both of them which drove me to psychopathy. I'm glad my STBX has decided against that route.Their mother is trying to undermine me by telling children things they shouldn't hear and making promises but I cut all contact and referred her to my attorney. Unfortunately she made a bed of nails that she has to lay on now, her own doing to her children
Does your ex use drugs? Is she a prostitute? What does she do that is so damaging to your children that she must be cut out of their life?Well I can tell you that i am raising these children with confidence so far. They barely ever mention there mother and that scares me too. Their mother is trying to undermine me by telling children things they shouldn't hear and making promises but I cut all contact and referred her to my attorney. Unfortunately she made a bed of nails that she has to lay on now, her own doing to her children
Bringing a convicted felon into the home and said felon harming one of the children, then swallowing a bottle of pills qualifies in my book for wanting to limit interaction with such a person. She is a danger to them, and herself, at least for the foreseeable future.Does your ex use drugs? Is she a prostitute? What does she do that is so damaging to your children that she must be cut out of their life?
I agree.Bringing a convicted felon into the home and said felon harming one of the children, then swallowing a bottle of pills qualifies in my book for wanting to limit interaction with such a person. She is a danger to them, and herself, at least for the foreseeable future.
Whole thing is tragic. Nobody wins.But it's still true that regardless the children are going to suffer for a long time. I hope that their mother gets her head screwed on streight sooner than later.
I agree. He has a lot of work to do now to help his children through this.Whole thing is tragic. Nobody wins.