I can not seem to get my feelings through to this man. I've read books, use "I" statements, avoid "you always, you never etc. I am so frustrated I'm shutting down. I don't see the point in expressing myself to someone that just doesn't get it. We are giving our marriage a month to see if things improve MC is out if the question he will not go. I don't feel like there is a "we". He makes major decisions about house, finances, trips etc
without talking to me. I find these things out because I over hear him talking to other people about them or I see travel confirmation in our business email. He doesn't see, understand or care why this bothers me, I don't know. This is a second marriage for both of us. It seems like his house his money his decision. I work and contribute to bills but house, business were his before we married. I don't want control or financial half of his stuff, just some consideration of what I think, consideration of knowing what's going on before 10 other people. He sees nothing wrong its always an argument. Please help, am I being controlling, over sensitive ant suggestions? This does not seem like healthy marital communication to me
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without talking to me. I find these things out because I over hear him talking to other people about them or I see travel confirmation in our business email. He doesn't see, understand or care why this bothers me, I don't know. This is a second marriage for both of us. It seems like his house his money his decision. I work and contribute to bills but house, business were his before we married. I don't want control or financial half of his stuff, just some consideration of what I think, consideration of knowing what's going on before 10 other people. He sees nothing wrong its always an argument. Please help, am I being controlling, over sensitive ant suggestions? This does not seem like healthy marital communication to me
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