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Dk, how old are you? It sounds like you're both young. I was a soldier and I got married at 22, not having any clue what I was really doing. How long were you dating? Did you honestly feel his love for you as you were getting married? Did you really want to get married or were you just in love with the idea of it? What was his behavior before you left? What kinds of ads was he posting on the internet, for sex?
It honestly doesn't look like your marriage is based on a strong foundation of love, honesty and open feelings. Is he going to Germany to be stationed there or train? If he's being stationed there, you absolutely can move with him, so it sounds like he doesn't want you to be with him.
Sorry for all the questions, but a better picture would allow us to help you better, and to give yourself a better picture of everything.
In regards to your mirror post:
It honestly doesn't look like your marriage is based on a strong foundation of love, honesty and open feelings. Is he going to Germany to be stationed there or train? If he's being stationed there, you absolutely can move with him, so it sounds like he doesn't want you to be with him.
Sorry for all the questions, but a better picture would allow us to help you better, and to give yourself a better picture of everything.
In regards to your mirror post:
Dk, take a breath... This isn't the end of the world. Consider the facts of what he said to you: that he'd cheat on you and (assume) you'd do the same. Basically he's saying that he'll do whatever he wants. He's not the husband you deserve. While watching porn as a couple has helped some, it's not for everyone and commenting on the woman in the video isn't exactly a way to light the fire with you. You deserve someone who will treat you as an equal in the relationship. Don't hold on to a destructive man. You have your whole life ahead of you! You'll meet someone who will show you the respect you deserve.I don't know what to do!!! He says he is not using me and the craigslist thing was a joke between him and his bestfriend I have never met who lives in Iowa. Our sex life is down the drain too. He always says it would be hot if we watched porn together. I'm not gonna lie, I tried to once but, the whole time he was just like, "she's hot, She has a nice ass, damn look at those tits!" Like, really! When does he ever compliment me? I'm a great looking female! I hear it from everyone! But, never him.. I need serious advice. He has no faith in us whatsoever! He said he would cheat and he knows i'd do the same. I would not! I'm dedicated to my soldier. Can someone please tell me what I should do?!?!