I just got married on August 31st 2012. My husband is in the military. He does not tell me he loves me anymore andI found out some stuff on him. He gave me his old phone and he was still logged into his yahoo email account. So, I went through it. He posted ads on CRAIGSLIST saying he needed a wife and he didn't want to fall in love! I believe he wanted to get married for the extra money he gets being married. Called BAH. All I do is sit at our apartment all day long. I want to go back to college! I have no vehicle and he told me if I found a full time job he will take a loan out to get me one. I found a job and had an interview and he changed his mind and said he couldn't. I left him this past Friday and came back to my moms. I don't know what to do!!! He says he is not using me and the craigslist thing was a joke between him and his bestfriend I have never met who lives in Iowa. I need serious advice. My family says I should just divorce him and get alimony but, I want to at least try to save my marriage that I haven't even been in long. He is supposed to leave for Germany in the summer and he says I can't go. Then he told me marriage doesn't last when soldiers leave for long periods of time. He has no faith in us whatsoever! He said he would cheat and he knows i'd do the same. I would not! I'm dedicated to my soldier. Can someone please tell me what I should do?!?!