been married for 5 years and together for about 9. Went through a rough patch a few years ago with a 1 week separation sparked by a brief flirt with a co-worker. We both realized that since we were married that nothing was going to happen and we stopped. I however really analyzed my relationship and thought there were issues that were causing me to want to "look"elsewhere. We went to counseling and worked on things and after a few months seemed better. eventually we decided to have kids.
prior co-worker comes to me a few months ago and says that she and her husband are divorcing and I was...very conflicted. We sort of flirted again and realize that we have an attraction between us but I told her unless I'm single we can only be friends. we haven't communicated for a month or 2.That said I really do think about what can happen between us and again I have been really evaluating my marriage. I contacted my therapist and we've had several sessions and she thinks that we should divorce, that we are just a bit too different and that i will probably feel this way again if we don't split now.
However we have a 5 month oldl. And I have a constant battle in my brain about leaving or staying. My wife is a nice kind woman but we really don't connect. I tune her out about 95% of the time and I don't have great respect for her.
When I set a date in my mind to have the talk I get overwhelmed and think that I should just suck it up and stay. When I don't pressure myself I am convinced that I should leave
anyone else feel this way
prior co-worker comes to me a few months ago and says that she and her husband are divorcing and I was...very conflicted. We sort of flirted again and realize that we have an attraction between us but I told her unless I'm single we can only be friends. we haven't communicated for a month or 2.That said I really do think about what can happen between us and again I have been really evaluating my marriage. I contacted my therapist and we've had several sessions and she thinks that we should divorce, that we are just a bit too different and that i will probably feel this way again if we don't split now.
However we have a 5 month oldl. And I have a constant battle in my brain about leaving or staying. My wife is a nice kind woman but we really don't connect. I tune her out about 95% of the time and I don't have great respect for her.
When I set a date in my mind to have the talk I get overwhelmed and think that I should just suck it up and stay. When I don't pressure myself I am convinced that I should leave
anyone else feel this way