This is the husband half of the funcouple and I have never been able to get a straight answer to the question of, if your partner is getting completely fulfilled why is it wrong to masturbate? My wife and I will openly admit the we are both sexual addicts and are very happy to be married to each other. She is away on a business trip and I have been watching porn and jacking off for several hours. We had sex several times this week and had a nice long session just before she left. I think I speak for a lot of guy who consider a night of self-pleasuring. porn and a few beers completely harmless. I hope this post does not offend but like I said I have never gotten a good answer and maybe we can get a discussion going.