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I don't agree with sex outside of the marriage ever. Call me old fashioned, but I don't think it is OK. As far as your husbands situation, it is tough and high risk. The reality that he could give into pressure, curiosity or the "moment" is real. Do all men cheat, NO, but he is in a bad situation. Perhaps it is possible he not go to the nightclubs during the trips? Is he comfortable with the situation? His thinking the 50 year old should be excused seems like a gateway attitude that would make me uncomfortable. I would want to make sure my marriage did not have vulnerabilities and really be sure that my husband knew he was my priority and work very hard and making sure he is content and happy so that he won't be as likely to be curious or wishful. I have learned the hard way about assumptions, and now I assume nothing and ask what is important frequently so he knows I care about everything in his life.
good luck
SDC
good luck
SDC