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She said she didn't do anything ,that OM was the one at fault because she physically and verbally didn't do anything.
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She said it was just a f ing comment
And at a minimum that’s exactly what she is admitting she did wrong. She did not stand up for you and your marriage because she did nothing. Her inaction is certainly doing something wrong, and both you and she know it. But she also knows there was/is much more that she did, so maybe she feels like letting him say those things wasn’t a big deal because she also slept with him.
Dealing with this in a passive way is an enormous mistake OP. And it appears you are going to do that, and will likely deal with the consequences down the road.
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She went to sausage man's house for Thanksgiving and had him in her truck with a bed.
I don't give a xit what happened. This is disgusting especially compiling with his sex comments to your woman in front of you even!
I don't have advice you will ever follow.
Might want to stop complaining because that accomplishes nothing without action.
I don't give a xit what happened. This is disgusting especially compiling with his sex comments to your woman in front of you even!
I don't have advice you will ever follow.
Might want to stop complaining because that accomplishes nothing without action.
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And your not being insecure or jealous at all. Your reacting off of the actions of your wife. Your reacting off of being disrespected. Your looking at the facts and saying to yourself is this a possibility. It's called being normal and human.
Do you believe her?
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Maybe she is telling the truth and she didn't verbally or physically didn't do anything. But emotionally she hit you with a 10 pound sledgehammer by not defending you, fighting to keep OM in her life. Going as far too wanting you and OM TO HANG OUT. Spending a holiday with OM. THE LIST GOES ON AND ON .emotionally she has done alot to hurt you and the worst part is she doesn't even realize what she did wrong. I don't feel your wife has a true understanding of what it means to be married and to be a loving, supportive wife. You and her both need get into marriage counseling quick . Like real fast
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That's part of the problem -- she didn't do ANYTHING to shut him down. What he did was BS and disrespectful, and she KNOWS this, and yet she still did NOTHING.
Oh wait, yeah she did -- she decided to tell this ass about your marital issues - did she discuss them with YOU?
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