If you want to have a chance of your wife becoming a wife again, she needs to get a new job.
A job where she is home every night, not where she is home for a day and a half, every two weeks.
You have a remote wife, not a real one.
She has conditioned herself to be on her own.
Her real home is on those long roads, those rest stops, those shower rooms, and restaurants, hundreds, maybe a thousand miles from you.
She likely has a cadre of truck driver friends, both male and female that she meets up with, along the way.
In the old days, the CB radio was their link and conversation means.
It still is, but not so much.
They use it to spot the bear on the side of the road, or bear in the sky.
Now, it is cellphones, for personal communication.
Truck stops are where prostitutes haunt and hunt, card games are played, drug buying and use are common.
Having sex in trucks is common. The sexual pressure a female driver (co-driver) must endure must be high.
All sorts of illicit behavior happens at those stops.
The station owners call the police and attempt to halt this, but that is temporary.
There are ~4.5 million big class 8 semi trucks on the roads, on average.
Most drivers are great folks and good citizens.
There is always that 10% that struggle and live in shadows.
It is a very lonely job.
Back pain is common, as is constipation, and heart problems (from sitting all day).
Pain killers stop the pain, uppers keep them awake.
Cocaine is the number one, drug of choice for truckers.
This is followed by opioids and marijuana.
Studies have shown that less than 1% of truckers get busted for drug use, using urinalysis.
Drugs commonly linger in urine for about 3 days.
If hair samples are included that number jumps to 6-12%.
Hair retains drug usage stats for about 3 months.
The general population abuse drugs more than do truckers.
~13% are monthly+, or regular users. (If hair samples are used, this might also be the truckers statistic)
~22% are occasional users.
If your wife is having regular sex on the road, she wants to come home and relax, I would think.
This may be why she has no interest in it with you. She could have many willing partners.
This is a rotten thing to write and say, without proof.
I have no idea if this is the case.
The marriage threat is out there.
It is the (daily) perfect storm for infidelity.
