She said she has no problem with it.
Yes it was still going on not like everyday but over a 2 year period.the first time was 1.i got her wet then a couple of months go by he cooks some sausage in his truck they eat I was informed of this btw.then the second comment 2.look she got my sausage in her mouth and she likes it.then 5 months go by and the other night while my wife has a female student on her truck he says comment 3.did you get any pictures,did you get any video?implying my wife and her female student was taking part in sexual activities with each other.Best to put the kibosh on her activity with respect to other work mates.
Also she needs to tell "supervisor" in writing and cc HR for getting documented.
Dirtbags start like your experience and ramp up as time marches on when they get no knuckles rapped.
Also - 2 years married and this is going on with your wife? 🚩🚩🚩
I expected as much tho they never do unless you got phone records or video or caught them in the act.mind you the sex has died down, she never ask for it anymore its always me.but she did have one overy removed and her job is tough on the body,so I tried to understand and I did,but I am not sure that kills wanting to hold my hand or loving on me,nope I get pop kisses and sex that feels like she is only doing it to shut me up.no bj s or nothing,and this wasn't like this when we first got together, total 180,went from warm and loving to cold and distant.Nope
She says nothing happened like that and he is just a freind.If I were you I would be very worried.. I'm sorry but married people in love don't have these things happen and if by chance it does happen the married partner shuts it down quick without being told. Doesn't seem like your wife gives a Crap what you think or feel.. and has to be pressured to stop, or make you believe it has stopped. I feel like from what you said she has most likely cheated already but that's just opinion cause there is no proof . I hope I'm wrong
My gut says yes mayb not physical sex but mayb kiss or hugging. She messed up and said the first time we had problems she was stopped for the night and OM was arround and she called him over without tell me mind u her truck has a bed in the back,to discuss our marriage problems at that point he had said 2 of the 3 comments.i didn't find out about that till tonight.You know your wife better than any of us.. In your heart and mind do you believe she hasn't cheated on you? Honestly
No I can't be happy the way it was,thank you for being kind.Then the only question you need to ask yourself is , is this the type of marriage you can be happy with for the rest of your life? If yes don't do anything. If your answer is no then talk to lawyer.. I can see you love the woman you married, but the woman she is now is not the same person you married.. it's your call but i think you already know what you need to do, it's just dealing with the decision that's so hard. I'm sorry partner
Yea I stood my ground ,did not accuse her of a affair I have no physical proof,I just said you never tell him to cut it out when he says it to u infront of me,and he has Bern warned 3 times,he has to go,so I told dude because she wouldn't do it.and because I wouldn't bend and see it as harmless.then that's when she said I think I am done.i told her about this post she read over what I put and said you didn't tell my side of it and go mad.As it should.
You mention she said "its done", with regard to the coworker? What does that mean?