My wife and I been married for 2 years. We met through online. She lived in Asia and after getting to know her for one year I visited her for 3 weeks. Their we decided to process paperwork to come to the US. She came to the US year 2010. When she got here she felt depress because everything is so new to her and especially family not being with her. I told her everything is going to be okay. To make things short we have 2 kids already 15 month old and 2 month old. This 2 years our relationship has not been going well. We've been verbal, sometimes hitting each other in front of our kids. We thought of divorce but still were trying to make things work. Now she wants to go back to her country with the 2 kids for about 3 months to unwind . But I disagree because I'll miss my kids too and I don't want anything happening to them. Please need advise.