Why do people really get married? Marriage is supposed to be a real life commitment to your spouse... When I got married I really beleived that we would be together until one of us dies... before we got married she said she would kill me before she divorsed me... That actually gave me comfort in knowing that she didn't beleive in divorse. Now she says she wants a seperation, because she doesn't know if shes in love with me anymore. weve only been married for 3 years, but together 7 years before that. Really??? The old timers who have been together 20-40 years im sure have had their ups and downs. The only way people can stay together for life is by giving things a chance, and time to fix things. Not just give up, and run away from problems, spouses, a complete family. My wife thinks marriage is a f#cking fairytale the worst part is I'm still here waiting for her to see the light. I looked up the 180 program, and I'm wondering if anyone has had success in it? Plus any advice with past exsperinces with possible seperation, and divorse... Thanks in advance.... The Lost Man!!!!