I’ve been married for almost 5 years have a 1 year old through IVF, and 7 months into my daughters life my husband had an affair with someone twice our age which I didn’t learn about until 7 months later. This was devastating to me. My husband is also an alcoholic who hits me from time to time. So when I found out he had this affair he lost it and hit me and choked me. So I made him leave and told him he needed to see a therapist. So he’s been going to a therapist for the past 5 months and I have been going for a month. I have seen little change in him. He even hit me again over the weekend and broke my windshield in my car. So I went to the therapist today and I really just want to give up and get a divorce as I see no changes in him. I guess I wanna know if I am crazy for still hoping that he will get better or if I should just call it quits.