have been with my hubby for 5 years. Two years ago, he cheated on me and the mistress ended up getting pregnant. We did not have any children so this was his first. I was devastated. The baby girl was born 6 days before our wedding anniversary. I was so hurt and upset at first I told him to make a decision, either he wanted to be a husband to me and have no dealing with the child/mistress or we get a divorce (because the mistress made it very clear to me she loved my husband and couldn't helped the way she felt). He told me he wouldn't go to her house and he wanted to focus on making our marriage better. Months later I found out he was visiting her and the baby everyday behind my back and his mother started babysitting the baby overnight while the mistress went to work. I felt so betrayed at him and his family for accepting not only just the child, but the other woman as apart of the family and disregarding my feelings about the situation. He made it clear to me that she was his child and he was going to be apart of her life bc she couldn't help the way she was made. We separated for about 5 mos. then I took him back thinking he really wanted to repair our marriage. A year has passed since then and now I am 5 mos. pregnant with our first child. Since day 1 of the baby news, he didn't seem as excited as I thought he would be. I feel really hurt that he is not showing any concern for our child like he did about the baby with his mistress. I don't understand how he can treat me so cold while I'm pregnant, but with her he betrayed me over and over by going to her house to check on her while she was pregnant.... Please help me with how I should handle this bc I've tried talking to him due to the fact I dont want my child to be brought into a messed up marriage that's up and down.