Hello Men - Question for you. Quick overview of my other posts, but my partner and I used to be very sexual active and compatible. Never had complaints for the first few years. I haven't changed in terms of what I want to do sexually or to try new things. I look the same - attractive. He has changed completely. Gained about 50 pounds, doesn't seem to care about anything anymore - including me. Doesn't even try to kiss me - only married for about a year - 30 years old. Sex is so few and far between, I usually have to cry or scream at him and then he MAY allow me to initiate sex. Maybe once every two months. SO.. given that, he tells me he doesn't have a sexual appetite or desire. Last night I was watching some trashy show with a few girls in a pool. Immediate he got a hard on. This has happened before, watching a show and a hot girl comes on and he gets hard. Should I be upset over this? Even when he does get a hard on - he never tries to have sex with me. Just tries to hide it and goes to bed. What should I think?!